Crisco, Dez and Ryan Love ‘Em or List ‘Em: Would you Love or List? Find out what happens on Love ‘Em or List ‘Em! Can you List your girlfriend because she can’t sing? Adam’s girlfriend is the total package, so why is he finding it so hard to be truthful with her… She thinks she is a phenomenal singer but she is actually a terrible singer. Would you love or list telling her the truth?