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Just over a year ago, 8-year-old Dexter developed a bump on his head. “My mom just kept thinking I was hitting my head because I don’t use the ladder on my bunk bed,” says Dexter. But when a bump started growing near his jaw, Jen, Dexter’s mom, knew something wasn’t right. She took him to the hospital where they found out that he had cancer, though doctors weren’t quite sure what kind.
“At first, they thought it was rhabdomyosarcoma or a type of lymphoma,” says Jen. But a biopsy determined that Dexter had neuroblastoma, a rare cancer that usually occurs in infants and toddlers. “For kids his age,” says Manny, Dexter’s dad, “only about 40 kids a year get Dexter’s type of cancer.” So, Dexter started a regimen of treatments and therapies to defeat the 16 tumors that were in his body.
Since his diagnosis last October, Dexter has transferred from a hospital in Duluth to the University of Minnesota and endured six rounds of chemotherapy, a surgery to remove an eight inch tumor that was next to his kidney, a bone marrow transplant, IMBG radiation (a type of radiation that works from the inside out) and he recently entered into a new phase of antibody therapy. “Give me shots, give me infusions but don’t give me pills,” says Dexter. “I hate them.”
The new treatment has a 50 percent chance of working. “The way I see it, is that I have Dexter 100% today,” says Manny. He’s focused on staying present and providing all the new experiences he can for Dexter.
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Before he lost his hair, 8-year-old Griffin used to rock the side sweep. “He loved his hair,” says Jill, Griffin’s mother. “There were times when he was maybe going to miss the bus because he was doing it.”
Then, after being diagnosed with Ewing sarcoma and beginning the first 12 weeks of chemotherapy treatment, he started to see his hair on his pillow. “I had to talk him into shaving it,” says Jill.
Along with a shaved head, cancer also left Griffin with a scar across his side from the removal of a mass the size of a baseball in his pelvis.
Griffin’s cancer journey began before Christmas of 2014 when he experienced pain in his knee that eventually spread into his thigh area. Initially thinking it was growing pains, Jill and his father, Kurt, took Griffin to the doctor where scans revealed a mass. After scans were sent to the University of Minnesota, doctors discovered that Griffin had Ewing’s sarcoma, a rare type of cancer that occurs most often in and around the bones and typically affects children and young adults. Generally, 50 percent to 75 percent of Ewing’s sarcoma cases can be successfully treated.
After the first twelve weeks of chemotherapy treatments, Griffin had surgery to remove the mass. Thankfully, the chemotherapy had done its job, shrinking the tumor from baseball size, to about the size of a stick of gum. In September, he received news that the tumor site was clean.
Today, the end is in site! Griffin is finishing up the last of an additional twenty six weeks of post-surgery chemotherapy, including a trial chemotherapy, in the hope that it will keep the cancer from recurring. If his blood counts are up and he stays on schedule, Griffin will be finished with the therapy by the end of December- just in time for Christmas!
Both Minnesota Gophers fans, Casey’s and Griffin’s families met through an introduction by former Gopher Coach Jerry Kill. Their friendship continues to grow as they battle cancer.
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Fourteen-year-old Ben kicked off 2013 differently than other kids. Rather than celebrating on New Year’s Eve, he went to the hospital because the lymph node in his armpit was swelling, he was having trouble breathing and he had a skin lesion on his back.
After over 100 tests on everything from anthrax to fungal infections with no answers, he was moved to the PICU, sedated and put on a ventilator because he could not catch his breath due to fluid in his lungs.
Finally, after a biopsy, the doctors had a diagnosis: Ben had Stage 4 anaplastic large cell lymphoma. After six rounds of chemotherapy, Ben responded remarkably well and was eventually able to come off the ventilator. He says while he was on the ventilator, it was like being in a “crazy dream world.” “It was like a kaleidoscope,” he says. “Legoes were raining.”
In the first week of May 2014, Ben had his last chemotherapy session and it seemed that Ben was in the clear. But, after only a few weeks of promising progress, the breathing problems returned- and so had the cancer.
Doctors gave Ben a new medication, different than the traditional chemotherapy, to work toward remission. Once again, he responded very well to the medication and his breathing improved. When he was sufficiently in remission, Ben underwent two more rounds of more intense, traditional chemotherapy and radiation aimed to destroy the remaining cancer cells. Then, he was given extracted cells from umbilical cord blood that was infused over the course of a half hour to recover his immune system.
After the cord blood transplant, Ben was confined to a hospital room, unable to leave until his immune system fully recuperated. When he finally returned home, he wasn’t able to interact with friends and family or leave the house for over three months after transplant.
During his recovery, he worked on his Boy Scout badges, played video games and studied. He managed to stay in all his honors courses despite being in treatment! Determined and optimistic, this intelligent kid was able to conquer cancer despite a scary beginning and relapse. Today, Ben continues to do well and he’s taking a special medication that disables cancer cells. Luckily, there are few noticeable side effects.
This year, a lot of new and exciting things have happened to Ben: He went on a Make-A-Wish trip to France with his family, had a blast at Disneyland Paris and started his first year of high school.
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Owen is an energetic 6-year-old who loves jamming to music (especially Johnny Cash!), playing baseball, and collecting gumball machines.
Owen and his twin, Charlie, were born prematurely. Owen soon developed bleeding in his brain and hydrocephalus, a condition that causes fluid from the spinal cord to build up around the brain. At a hospital near the family’s home, doctors had repaired the bleeding in Owen’s brain and inserted a shunt to drain the excess fluid.
But as Owen grew, his parents, John and Emily, grew increasingly concerned that the specialists they’d been seeing had overlooked something important. Their pediatrician referred them to the experts at Gillette Children’s Specialty Healthcare. At Gillette, Owen’s parents met with Robert Wood, M.D., a pediatric craniofacial surgeon. Wood suspected that the sutures used to close Owen’s skull after his earlier surgery had fused improperly. He ordered tests to confirm.
Wood also told the family he’d like to consult with a Gillette neurosurgeon, Patrick Graupman, M.D., about Owen’s shunt. Graupman determined that Owen’s shunt was draining too much fluid from his brain. He inserted a more effective shunt the very next morning. A month later, Wood and Graupman reconstructed Owen’s skull. While leaving Gillette to return home after Owen’s second surgery, John told Emily, “We’ve finally found the place we’re coming back to.”
Owen also has cerebral palsy, a form of brain damage that causes abnormally tight muscle tone and can make it difficult and painful to walk. Last summer, Owen underwent a selective dorsal rhizotomy surgery followed by six weeks of inpatient rehabilitation. The surgery permanently reduced the muscle tightness in his arms and legs, making it easier for Owen to walk, run and play Miracle League baseball. He especially likes pinch-running and pitching.
“Finding Gillette has been life-changing for our whole family,” says Emily. “Owen’s life would be much different today if not for Gillette.”
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Ava’s mom, Melissa, describes the moment of Ava’s birth as “complete chaos.” And it’s with good reason. After a normal pregnancy and ultrasounds indicating a healthy baby, Melissa was shocked to discover Ava had a cleft, or split, lip. Closer inspection revealed the roof of her mouth, called the palate, was split as well.
“In those first days your mind goes into this totally different place,” explains Melissa of the emotions she experienced. “You leave your body, in a sense, and watch yourself try to maneuver through.”
But Melissa wasn’t alone in her journey. Immediately after Ava’s birth, doctors called the craniofacial team at Gillette Children’s Specialty Healthcare. Within days, Gillette’s experts had examined Ava and developed a treatment plan. She’d wear a special device, called an OrthoCleft retainer, for the first three months of life. By reducing the gap in the gums and stretching the lip muscles, the retainer paves the way for successful corrective surgery. It also improves babies’ sucking and eating ability, ensuring they receive the nutrients they need to grow and thrive.
Melissa says she’s thankful to Gillette for providing comfort at a time she needed it most. “They put me at ease and explained everything thoroughly,” she recalls. “I knew, at that moment, that everything was going to be okay.”
At three months old, Ava underwent surgery to repair her cleft lip. Melissa likens the experience to being part of a miracle. “We were thrilled and amazed,” she recalls of seeing Ava for the first time after surgery. “Nothing could prepare me for that moment.” A second surgery, to repair Ava’s cleft palate, followed six months later. Ava will need a final surgery to completely close her palate in about a year.
Today, Ava is doing something Melissa never dreamed possible—she’s modeling. It’s a natural fit for the 8-year-old, who loves singing, dancing and acting. Melissa attributes her daughter’s confidence, in large part, to the exceptional care she’s received at Gillette. “When I look at Ava I see this fantastic personality, this outgoing child,” says Melissa. “Gillette has enabled her to flourish through all of this.”
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“Don’t let her size fool you,” wrote Ashlyn’s mom, Amanda, on her family’s CaringBridge page last April. “She is a fierce little girl. If anyone can make it through something like this, it’s her.”
On April 17, Ashlyn was critically injured when a dump truck hit her family’s car. Her dad, Luke, also sustained serious injuries and her brother, Noah, experienced a concussion, sprained ankle and minor contusion. At the time of the accident, Luke was days away from overseas deployment with the Minnesota National Guard. Amanda, who wasn’t in the car at the time of the accident, was 9 months pregnant with the family’s third child.
When Ashlyn arrived at Gillette Children’s Specialty Healthcare’s pediatric intensive care unit, doctors discovered severe swelling, bruising and bleeding of her brain. She also had skull fractures and broken bones. She spent 11 days in a medically induced coma to allow her brain to begin healing. “It’s strange to see life going on around me, because for me life is standing still,” said Amanda. “People still doing birthdays, gymnastics and dance classes, while my baby girl is hooked up to countless machines to keep her alive.”
Twelve days after the accident, Ashlyn woke up and the long process of rehabilitation began. Days filled with therapy helped her regain the strength and mobility she’d lost. Within days, her progress had already amazed her family and nursing staff. “Ashlyn shows us things we did not expect to see from her so soon,” wrote Amanda on May 5. “She is acting more and more like herself every day.” While doctors and therapists helped Ashlyn overcome the physical effects of the accident, psychologists and child life specialists helped address the cognitive effects of her injuries.
By June 5, Ashlyn had progressed enough to continue her recovery as an outpatient. She was fitted with a special pink helmet to prevent additional injury to her fragile brain, and her parents were instructed to limit certain physical activities — playgrounds, for example, are out of the question due to risk of falling. For Ashlyn’s family, her safety is now a lifelong worry. Typical childhood tumbles, even sports injuries, could have life-threatening consequences.
Today, Ashlyn is thriving in outpatient therapy. She began preschool this fall, and even started dance classes again. She still struggles with hearing loss and may face permanent damage to her vision. But her family can’t help but feel grateful for what they call a miraculous recovery. “Her personality, creativity, and even her cognitive abilities are so similar to that of pre-accident Ashlyn,” wrote Amanda on July 24. It’s amazing.”
Ashlyn’s family says they feel grateful, too, for the team who cared for their little girl. Gillette Children’s has been a huge blessing for our family,” wrote Amanda during their inpatient stay. “It’s obvious that they truly care about Ashlyn’s recovery. We couldn’t be in a better place.“
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Like many kids, Sydney has active interests with cheerleading among them. So in March 2015, when Sydney had some abdominal pain and noticed a small lump, she thought it was a pulled muscle from cheerleading practice. As the pain worsened, she knew it was something more serious. After multiple scans and consults with doctors, Sydney was diagnosed Burkitt’s Lymphoma, a cancer that starts in immune cells called B-cells. It’s recognized as one of the fastest growing human tumors.
After enduring surgery, six rounds of chemotherapy and a blood transfusion, a determined Sydney was optimistic, “I don’t want to be sad. It’s just cancer!” she says. Sassy and charismatic, she wore a gold temporary tattoo around her head that she calls her “warrior band.” After battling for months, she was finally able to go home in July for the first time. Sydney was excited to do the activities and things she enjoys that she couldn’t do during treatment in Minnesota. She also missed her family and her friends.
Sydney says she’s learned a lot of things during her experience: she didn’t know how many people had cancer and she says that no one should be going through what she went through. Her favorite saying is “During a hug you don’t let go until the kid let’s go.”
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As Cooper’s mom Denine saw her oldest son losing his independence, she worried about what life would be like for him in a few short years. “He wasn’t able to do buttons or belts,” she remembers. “Dishing up food and eating it was difficult.”
In school, the 12-year-old could hardly write. And his arm strength—it just wasn’t there.
Cooper has dystonia, a progressive condition that causes uncontrollable, twisting and repetitive movements. Through Gillette Children’s Specialty Healthcare, Cooper and his family had tried every standard treatment option available to improve his movement and quality of life, including medication and physical therapy. But his condition worsened.
“I could see us moving forward being wheelchair-bound,” remembers Denine. “I could already see us going down that path.” But Cooper’s family didn’t give up, and neither did Gillette. Gillette is one of a few hospitals in the nation to offer pediatric deep brain stimulation (DBS) to treat dystonia. The success of DBS surgery has created a new path for Cooper.
“I love Gillette because they always listen to what you have to say, and they want to help you,” says Denine. “They are all about making kids’ lives better, which means so much to me.”
During the DBS procedure, Cooper’s surgeon implanted a medical device—called a neurostimulator—under the surface of his chest. In addition, a soft, flexible wire—called a lead—was implanted in his brain. The neurostimulator helps regulate Cooper’s movements by sending electrical signals through the lead to certain areas of the brain. The device sends stimulation 24 hours a day, every day.
Although DBS has been around for 30 years for adults who have Parkinson’s disease, it’s relatively new in its application for kids who have dystonia. And it’s working for Cooper.
“We could see the results immediately,” says Denine. “Right away after deep brain stimulation, his arms and hands were better. He was able to adjust his belt and shoes better.”
DBS helped build Cooper’s abilities, and Gillette helped build his confidence. “The doctors here at Gillette make me feel that I am not the only one with this disorder, and they make me feel like I can do anything,” says Cooper.
It’s been more than a year since Cooper, who turns 14 in September, had the surgery, and he’s thriving. Cooper loves playing chess and soccer. He’s also in accelerated math and reading classes.
“Now I worry about, ‘How’s he doing on his grades? He’s going to be able to play soccer—how’s he going to fit in on the team? How are we going to coordinate his soccer games with two other kids? And it’s nice. It’s nice to have normal worries,’” says Denine.
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On March 17, 2014, life changed forever for then 14-year-old Brianna. As she and three friends drove home from school, they were rear-ended and pushed into oncoming traffic. Brianna’s side of the car sustained a direct hit from a truck driving more than 50 miles per hour.
When Brianna arrived at the Level I Pediatric Trauma Center operated in partnership by Regions Hospital and Gillette Children’s Specialty Healthcare, her prognosis appeared grim. She had sustained severe head trauma and multiple skull fractures; major damage to her diaphragm, colon, bladder and other vital organs; broken bones; and many other injuries. “One of Brianna’s doctors later told us that the amount of transfused blood she needed was the most he’d seen in 30 years of practice,” recalls her mom, Missi. “I know in my heart that she would have died at any other hospital.”
“I refused to believe she would never wake up”
Brianna remained in a coma for nearly five weeks while she struggled with the effects of her injuries, along with kidney and liver failure. Although doctors cautioned that she might never recover, Missi and other family members remained optimistic. Then, on Easter weekend, Brianna’s best friends visited her bedside. She emerged from her coma the same day.
Brianna had woken up, but her journey was only beginning. The once-athletic teen had lost weight and muscle mass, and the damage to her brain was severe. “She wasn’t walking or talking, and had significant nerve damage in her left eye,” explains Missi. “She was awake, but not really awake.” Brianna soon transferred to Gillette’s inpatient rehabilitation unit and began intensive physical, occupational and speech therapy. Missi describes watching Brianna re-learn everything as physically and emotionally exhausting. Support from Brianna’s care team helped her through. “They treated me like family. They explained the medical stuff, but also helped me understand that I was not alone in this journey.”
Milestones take on new meaning
As Brianna progressed in her therapies, she achieved milestones that became even more significant the second time around. “The first time she spoke, rode a bike, stood up, climbed stairs—all of these things were turning points,” says Missi. “Everything was a new first.”
But there were hard moments too. Because Brianna’s brain had been so badly injured, she struggled with emotional and behavioral issues common in children who experience a traumatic brain injury. “She went through many stages—first hitting, then swearing, then crying in pain. There were many nights I cried myself to sleep,” remembers Missi.
Through the highs and lows of Brianna’s recovery, hospital staff helped her family celebrate special milestones. For example, on her 15th birthday, they arranged to bring her beloved horse, Hidalgo, to an unused helicopter pad at Regions Hospital to visit Brianna.
“Thank you for saving my baby girl!”
After three months of inpatient rehabilitation, Brianna went home. She continues weekly therapies in her community and follows up with her Gillette team regularly. “Dr. Song is amazed and thrilled at how well Brianna is doing!” wrote Missi in a CaringBridge entry.
Today, Brianna is walking independently, riding her horse, and will soon begin playing high school volleyball. Although she still struggles with physical effects of her injuries and short-term memory loss, she has accomplished more than many ever thought possible.
Missi says she’ll be forever grateful to the Regions and Gillette team for bringing Brianna back from the brink of death. Her message to them is this: “You treated us like we mattered, like our daughter’s life mattered,” she says. “Thank you for saving my baby girl! I will never forget any of you.”
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Trips and tumbles are a normal part of childhood. But what if every misstep brought the potential for weeks in a cast and months of physical therapy? That risk is Taylor’s reality — she has a condition called osteogenesis imperfecta, or brittle bone disease.
At 11 months old, Taylor broke her femur while playing with her siblings. Her parents, Kim and Ethan, rushed Taylor to urgent care — where the admitting physician noticed something unusual. Taylor’s sclera, the normally white part of the eye, had a bluish hue — a telltale indicator of brittle bone disease. “The doctor asked us, ‘Have you heard of osteogenesis imperfecta?’” remembers Kim. “We had never heard of it.”
An x-ray soon confirmed Taylor’s broken femur. To her family’s shock, it also indicated a second break: her tibia bone had been fractured at an earlier time. Taylor’s x-rays were sent to Stephen Sundberg, M.D., a pediatric orthopedic surgeon at Gillette Children’s Specialty Healthcare, who discovered two more previous fractures and confirmed her diagnosis. Sundberg admitted her to Gillette that evening, and the next morning she’d been placed in a full-body Spica cast to allow her fragile bones to heal.
“We quickly learned that when Taylor broke a bone, we wouldn’t always know that something was wrong,” explains Kim. “X-rays can miss things. And Taylor’s high tolerance for pain means she won’t always complain if something hurts.”
Today, thanks largely to bone-strengthening infusions Taylor receives, her fractures have become less frequent and less severe. While effective, the treatment will never eliminate the risk of breaks. As a result, her family walks a fine line—giving Taylor the freedom to be independent while also instilling the importance of caution. “Taylor’s personality is such that she’d be frustrated by feeling limited,” says Kim. “We don’t want to put her in a bubble or make her feel different. OI is all she knows — it’s her normal.”
From frequent orthopedic care to physical therapy, Kim and Ethan say they’re grateful to their Gillette team for supporting them since the beginning. “They care about our family,” says Kim. “It amazes me how many people it takes to care for one child with Taylor’s condition.”
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A favorite among his school peers, “delightfully mischievous” Michael was born with Apert syndrome, a rare genetic disorder. Its characteristics include prematurely fused skull bones, webbed fingers and toes, and a face that appears sunken in the middle.
Michael’s parents quickly discovered that not just any hospital could treat their son. In the Ruuds’ hometown, no physicians had experience operating on a young child with Apert syndrome. “We had an uneasy feeling that our son would be a guinea pig,” says Paty Ruud. “We wanted prompt treatment from an experienced surgeon.”
Robert Wood, M.D., a craniofacial surgeon at Gillette Children’s Specialty Healthcare, specializes in treating children who have disorders affecting the skull and face. He was visiting the Duluth hospital where Michael was born and met Michael’s parents when he was just days old. “We felt reassured knowing that Dr. Wood and the other specialists at Gillette had experience with kids like Michael,” Ruud says.
Wood performed Michael’s first surgery—a major procedure that expanded and reshaped his skull—when Michael was just 5 months old. Later surgeries separated Michael’s fingers and toes. “Our goal was to give Michael fingers in time for his first birthday,” his mother recalls. “We wanted him to be able to eat his own birthday cake. By his second birthday, we wanted to see him walk. With each surgery comes another new ability.”
Thanks to his surgeries and treatments at Gillette, Michael is developing normally. His parents say he’s a bright, happy child who is always smiling. Michael enjoys listening to music; playing his guitar, drums and recorder; riding bikes, and playing soccer and Wii.
“Michael understands that we are all different, but being different isn’t what defines him as a person,” Ruud says. “From a very young age, he began finding ways to adapt to situations. He does whatever he can to conquer a challenge. Because of his positive attitude, he fits in everywhere and is a favorite among his classmates and friends.”
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Ten-year-old Karee Jo, whose story was originally shared during last year’s KS95 for Kids Radiothon, was diagnosed with a rare form of cancer called Pleuropulmonary blastoma in 2013. After undergoing multiple rounds of chemotherapy, Karee Jo had surgery to remove the cancerous tumors. Unfortunately, the cancer returned last December, the same week as the Radiothon. Karee Jo had planned to travel from her home in Watford City, ND to attend the event but instead went to the hospital for surgery to remove a tumor growing near her heart.
A self-described social butterfly, Karee Jo likes to make friends with other kids at the hospital and the Ronald McDonald House during her time in Minnesota. She still tries her best to be positive and outgoing despite the challenges she’s faced. One of her favorite things is making her friends and family laugh and she enjoys dressing up like a fashion model. “Chemotherapy made me to lose my hair, so I couldn’t style it anymore,” she says regretfully. “So, I do the best I can with styling my clothes and my makeup. It’s my armor, it helps me get through a procedure,” she says.
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Eleven-year-old Isaac says things like they are and he’s not afraid to advocate for himself and his mom, especially when it comes to his cancer. “When I found out I had cancer, I was like “Yikes!” he says. “I started to worry and I was really scared of the needles. But when I did it enough times it got easier.”
Near the end of July 2014 during baseball season, Isaac started complaining that he had pain in his side and that his knee hurt. The pain became so intense, his parents Trisha and Dan took him into the clinic. An MRI revealed a tumor in his spine, and Isaac was later diagnosed with Ewing sarcoma. Ewing sarcoma represents only 2-3 percent of all children’s cancers and it is more commonly found in boys. Isaac knew he was not going down without a fight. Fighting meant enduring long hours of treatment. “Figure out stuff to look forward to and do a count down while you’re in treatment! Make sure to have movies and games!” Isaac says. During treatment, Criminal Minds was his favorite show — he wants to be a forensic anthropologist when he grows up – and once played Xbox for nine hours straight in the hospital, an achievement he is very proud of.
After two cycles of chemotherapy and one cycle of radiation, Isaac finished up treatment during May 2015. So far, a lot of exciting things are happening: Isaac and his family just got a new puppy, a 9-week old Golden Doodle named Lucy (he also has a tortoise named Tori). He’s also going to Australia for his Make-A-Wish –he really wants to try vegemite and possibly ride a kangaroo when he is there.
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In September 2013, Steven was diagnosed with a rare and aggressive form of cancer. Less than a year later, at age fourteen, he passed away. Originally scheduled for a Radiothon interview, Steven entered intensive care the night before his interview. A few months later, his mother, Kristi, spoke to Ryan and Shannon to honor his memory.
Two years prior to Steven’s diagnosis, he experienced what seemed like a painful appendicitis attack. Kristi took Steven to their local hospital where the CT scan and lab work came back normal.
A nurse, Kristi later accepted a position at the hospital and as part of her training, she added Steven’s information into the new computerized chart system. After doing this, she noticed a note for Steven’s CT scan from two years ago: “Large mass of unidentified origin. Suggest repeat scan.”
The next day, Kristi and Steven returned to the hospital to have an ultrasound performed. Her worst fears were realized when the ultrasound revealed not only one, but two large masses in his pelvis. “It was a nightmare,” she recalls.
After the initial surgery, a biopsy was performed and Steven was sent to the University of Minnesota Masonic Children’s Hospital through Flight For Life.
Kristi, who had given birth to Steven’s little brother Bryden just months prior, drove from Rapid City, SD to Minneapolis with her sister. That same day, the results of the biopsy revealed that Steven had desmoplastic small-round-cell tumor cancer, also known as “Blue Tumor Cancer.”
“We were told that he had about a two percent chance of survival. This cancer is one of the most aggressive and rare pediatric cancers in existence right now,” Kristi says.
Steven was a social butterfly and used to ask strangers while waiting in line at the pharmacy, “So, what are you in here for?” He joked that his family called him the male social butterfly, “a social butterman.”
Kristi, Steven, and Steven’s younger siblings, Abigail, Alyssa, Mason and Bryden all moved into the Ronald McDonald House in September 2013. Steven’s treatment plan included an additional pelvic surgery and eight rounds of chemotherapy followed by a bone marrow transplant in March 2014.
Since desmoplastic small-round-cell tumor cancer is so rare, Steven’s physician Dr. Brenda Weigel based his treatment plan on other more well-known cancers, such as sarcoma.
The experience of Steven’s diagnosis and passing has been extremely difficult for the entire family—but Kristi carries a message of forgiveness.
On Steven’s CaringBridge she wrote, “My hero taught me so much about unconditional love and to forgive the ones who have done us wrong. Steven, you were a better person than I can ever be!”
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One fact about Ling’s childhood is clear: she was born ten years ago in China with two clubfeet. Beyond that, the story of her first 16 months is cloudy.
When Bob and Fay adopted Ling, they knew that their daughter had health challenges. In fact, rudimentary medical records showed that she had suffered a coma as an infant, and her weight had dropped to only 3 pounds. But it wasn’t until the family came to Gillette that Ling’s parents understood the full extent of their daughter’s needs.
She Almost Starved to Death
Even after successful treatment of her clubfeet at Gillette, Ling had difficulty lifting the front of her feet when walking. Weak muscles left her unable to stand without support. She couldn’t run or jump. With her clubfeet corrected, her parents began to suspect something more was going on with their daughter. “We couldn’t make as many excuses for her being so delayed,” says her mom, Fay.
After multiple tests and medical evaluations, Gillette doctors surmised that Ling had almost starved to death during her first months of life. The malnutrition likely caused her coma and affected the part of her brain that controls motor function and development.
Ling now receives comprehensive care at Gillette, including physical and occupational therapy, strength testing, and has regular visits with a pediatric rehabilitation medicine physician. “We never knew there was such a specialty in medicine,” Fay says, “but we were so relieved when we found it at Gillette!”
“We’re a Strong Family Because of Gillette”
Though Ling still struggles with muscle problems – she continues to see a Gillette neurologist who specializes in muscle disorders – the family says they’ve seen immeasurable improvements, describing their daughter as “healthy and vibrant.” For example, the little girl who missed 28 days of preschool because of illness is now thriving in school. She especially loves science, and is learning to speak both French and Chinese.
“We have a fourth-grader who can swim the butterfly, who aces every spelling test, who has lots and lots of friends, and who has few issues about her health challenges,” her dad, Bob, says proudly. Ling has even learned to play the piano, despite weakness in her arms and hands.
“We haven’t encountered one thing we weren’t able to get done at Gillette,” Bob adds, “and we’re a strong family because of Gillette. Ling is going to have a great life!”
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Zach Sobiech, 18-year-old teen from Stillwater, Minn., was never far from his friends, and his guitar.
Upon his diagnosis of terminal cancer in May 2012, Zach turned to music in a big way – writing and performing songs as a way to say goodbye, at first to his friends and family, and then to the world when millions who became affected by Zach’s heartfelt lyrics and irresistible positivity in the face of adversity.
When Zach passed away on May 20, 2013, his fans pushed ’Clouds’ to up to #1 on iTunes, Spotify and the Billboard charts – a fitting tribute to a remarkable young man.
Zach bravely battled osteosarcoma, a rare bone cancer, with which he was diagnosed at age 14. As the disease progressed, doctors had no more effective treatment options to offer him a cure. Still, Zach decided to live like he always had, with a smile on his face, embracing every day with hope and joy.
Zach and his and his family started the Zach Sobiech Osteosarcoma Fund at Children’s Cancer Research Fund, and directed proceeds from his music and other fundraisers held in his honor to help researchers find better treatments to prevent and cure this devastating disease.
In collaboration with sarcoma expert Dr. Brenda Weigel, one of Children Cancer Research Fund’s Chief Medical Advisors and Zach’s primary doctor, a multi-phase research project is now underway. The project has brought together an A-team of basic and translational scientists with outstanding records of achievement in sarcomaresearch, including a veterinarian who treats canine patients with osteosarcoma. The partnership with Children’s Cancer Research Fund allows 100% of donations made to Zach’s Fund to go directly towards research.
Cancer may have taken Zach too soon, but his spirit remains a beacon of light and benevolence in a world that sometimes weighs too heavily. He has received several prestigious awards posthumously; his video for ‘Clouds’ was awarded an Upper Midwest Emmy award, and Katie Couric presented him with the Dream Maker Award, Children’s Cancer Research Fund’s highest honor. His fund for osteosarcoma research keeps growing, now at nearly $600,000. He will continue to inspire his family, his community and his fans to continue to help the children of tomorrow who learn that they have osteosarcoma.
We’ll see you again, Zach, up in those clouds.
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“A Walking Ray of Sunshine.” That’s how Carol Ann described her 11-year-old son Zac, of Chisago City, Minn. Despite his life-long battle with a disorder, neurofibromatosis (NF), Zac inspired and brought smiles to the faces to everyone he met.
When Zac was nearly 19-months old, he developed what doctors refer to as “café au lait” spots on his skin. Carol Ann also recalls noticing that he seemed to be stumbling more than his older siblings had at his age. Carol Ann worked at a hospital and started to ask her colleagues about these symptoms, and they recommended she take Zac to a doctor right away.
Carol Ann brought Zac in to the doctor just a few days before Christmas, 2003. After an MRI and some tests, doctors discovered benign tumors in his brain and diagnosed Zac with neurofibromatosis type 1 (NF1), which causes tumors to grow in his brain and along his nerves and lymph nodes — and for which there is no known cure. The difficulty of the diagnosis was compounded because, at the time, Zac’s father Nathan was overseas in Iraq as part of his service with the Minnesota National Guard. Carol Ann, an admitted Christmas enthusiast, recalls, “That Christmas was incredibly tough. Not only was Nathan away from home, but I was dealing with a devastating diagnosis. I did all I could to pull myself together and make it a happy Christmas for the kids.”
NF is one of the most common genetic disorders in the United States. It affects more than 100,000 Americans; more than cystic fibrosis, hereditary muscular dystrophy, Huntington’s disease and Tay Sachs combined. Though many people have a family history and inherit the disorder, between 30 and 50 percent of cases occur due to a random gene mutation, as was the case for Zac. As a first course of defense, Zac received regular low-dose chemotherapy treatments to stop the growth of the tumors, which continued successfully until he reached age 5. Then, doctors noticed a new tumor, and a biopsy confirmed that it was malignant. Because this tumor was inoperable, doctors had to try different chemotherapy options to shrink it.
One tumor, an optic glioma, left Zac blind in his left eye. In 2009, Zac had surgery to remove painful fibroids that had grown outside of his skull – another common side effect of NF.
Despite the years of chemotherapy, surgeries, long doctors’ appointments and other challenges, Zac remained an inspiration to others with his social intelligence that allowed him to talk to kids and adults alike. Zac “brought out the best in everyone,” says mom Carol Ann .
One of Zac’s favorite activities was helping “coach” his older brother Nick’s hockey team. Before most games, the team’s coaches let Zac have the last word in the locker room. His go-to advice to the players? “All hat tricks, no penalties. Get out there and play hard!” Zac would sit behind the players’ bench during the game, and cheer them on. The team and coaches embraced Zac’s presence on the team. During a playoff game last year, Zac wasn’t allowed to sit behind the bench like he normally does, but instead sat in the seats right next to the bench. When the team won – they skated right over to Zac and pounded their sticks on the glass in celebration. The team even gave their trophy to Zac.
This past spring, the family organized a benefit near Chisago City. Included in the silent auction were drawings that Zac created. The event drew around 700 people and raised more than $24,000 for the Zachary Neurofibromatosis Fund that Zac’s grandfather, Harvey Bartz, organized. As Harvey saw it, “This community wrapped their arms around Zac and his family to say ‘we’re with you.’ Just as important as the money, is seeing the community rally around Zac.”
Zac underwent radiation treatment called tomotherapy, which finished in March, 2011. “Tomotherapy hit him hard,” says Carol Ann. After Zac developed an osteosarcoma in his leg he could no longer walk without crutches. Carol Ann and Zac both vowed “if you keep going Zac, I’ll keep going.” In support of Zac, his classmates have shaved their heads to join the “Zac Pack.”
Zac passed away on November 20th, 2013 at home with his family- a wish he had expressed, as he had grown tired of being in hospitals and was missing his home and family members.
Doctors are hard at work in search of better treatments for Zac and other kids and adults living with NF. Until then, we can all benefit from Zac’s sage advice to “Get out there and play hard!”